Do you Dare?
Dare to admit the truth to yourself first, then whisper it to others before proclaiming it loudly. Dare to believe in yourself and your soul’s calling, even if no one else does. Dare to love and be loved. Dare to be YOU!
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Personal stories and tips on how to be more self accepting and self reliant in love, adventure and career (laced with pop culture references).
On producing creativity: The War of Art Book Review
I was literally handed The War of Art by my screenwriting partner/mentor, after weeks of thinking “I really should buy this book” (why hello there Mr. Universe). I’ve since read it twice and can see this affair continuing for years to come, like an annual friends with...
Make sense of 2011 in order to have a kick ass 2012
This post was inspired by Simone at Skinnydip – the one where I get all personal and shizz about 2011 in order to encourage you to do the same. Holy moly a lot happened this year; take stock & surprise yourself. January: Did you sign onto new commitments for the...
Why nice guys finish last: a single gal’s perspective
I was on a date recently with a self proclaimed nice guy who explained that he was still single because "nice guys always finish last". But he said he wasn't going to change (good man!) and eventually the right one would click. It got me thinking about the various...
Online Dating: The Anti-Profile
So this whole online dating thing. I really don’t want to do it again: too much work, routine and expectation. But how can I insult the hand that feeds my dating life? (I do meet guys in real life, but "there's always something"). They say the definition of insanity...
Random Acts of Bravery: Karaoke and more
My first instinct is to run away from things that scare me or avoid them at all costs...to protect myself and keep a sense of security I suppose. It annoys me beyond belief. I want to be Braveheart (carebears foreva). Save a horse, Ride a Cowboy Boat (or both) I hate...
5 Inspiring Canadians share less typical views on how to CRUSH IT
Last weekend I attended an event called Inspire Toronto, geared towards 18-25 year old Italian Canadians (all were welcome) during the recently established Italian Heritage Month. Before you click away, I've highlighted key learnings from 5 incredible Canadians...
Hi my name is Vanessa.
So far, my 30’s have been about embracing self-love and romantic love with a partner, navigating a true shift into adulthood, while retaining a playful and curious spirit.
My goal is to make others (and myself) feel less alone on this journey called life, by sharing lessons learned along the way!